Alphabet Meme
Sep. 28th, 2023 08:08 amLast night I only did two things of note: watched the new Ahsoka (still bad) and read an excellent book called "A Study in Scarlet Marquis", a queer Holmes/Watson book featuring the Oscar Wilde trials -- just like David Gerrold's Green Carnation, but ten times better. (I'll review the book in a separate entry)
In lieu of any interesting events, have this meme I stole from
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A is for Argument: Who is the last person you argued with and what was it about? It was probably my friend Dove, about Corbin (the 18 year old) and Kyle (the 26-year-old who was harassing him). I think the disconnect was that Dove strongly believes it's morally okay for an 18-year-old to be in a relationship with someone much older. I guess I believe the same in principle, but in practice, Corbin is still in high school, and Kyle was very clearly grooming him for an abusive relationship, not a healthy one.
B is for Breakfast: Do you eat breakfast? What do you usually have? I never eat breakfast -- I guess you could count the zero-sugar Monster I have every morning XD
C is for Car: Do you have one? What kind? If not, how do you usually travel? It's a little silver Pontiac, about 20 years old, with a huge dent on the hood. The guy I bought it from was kind of a reckless driver. For a $200 car it runs like a song.
D is for Dinner: What's on the menu tonight? I just got a shipment in from YamiBuy so it'll probably salted egg-yolk seaweed rolls and some seasoned rice
E is for Excellence: Name one thing you think you're really good at: I think writing!
F is for Friends: Tell us something you like about the last friend you spoke to: A. David. I adore his conversational skills. We can talk for hours.
G is for Games: What's the last game you played (computer or board game)? Hollow Knight.
H is for Home: Where do you consider to be your "hometown"? Is it where you live now? I grew up in a really rural area, a non-famous Amishville. (Not the touristy kind). I always felt kind of like an outsider in both the towns where I attended school XD The kids there made it clear I wasn't a hometowner, so I never felt like I had one! In any case, no, I don't live there now.
I is for Internet: What websites do you look at every day? Dreamwidth for sure. Google Drive and Gmail. Tumblr and ... discord... does discord count? That's not a website, that's an app. OK, and the only other one is the Kindle online reading page.
J is for Job: What did you want to be when you grew up? Are you doing that now? I secretly, desperately wanted to be a writer, but I felt afraid to tell anyone XD So as a kid I always claimed that I wanted to be something "respectable" to my mom, usually a cop or soldier, or FBI agent. I did end up enlisting, but enlisting in the military as a naive closeted gay kid is a fast way to get radicalized, and now I just work at a nonprofit.
K is for Kitchen: Are you a good cook? What's your go-to dish? No, really not a good cook. When I was married to my ex-wife, my go-to meal was a box of Zatarain's dirty rice with fresh bell peppers and onions chopped up and mixed with it XD That was, no lie, as fancy as it ever got. Mostly I just eat veggies, eggs, ramen, canned soup... and whatever my roommate cooks for me!
L is for Learning: Are you studying or learning anything new right now? Trying to learn Japanese. I have a bad habit of totally forgetting that I'm doing that.
M is for Movies: What's the last one you watched and did you like it? The last I watched was The Nun II and it was just your average Conjuring movie. I liked The Nun (1) a lot better because it spoke to some odd unnameable kink inside of me (hot priest).
N is for Nightmares: Do you have bad dreams? Any recurring themes? Last night I had a nightmare that I was in the Chicago Art Institute. A new mosaic was on display. The tiles were removable, and behind the tiles, enclosed within the mosaic, you could see these amazingly intact Roman sculptures, with the original paint still on them. I was amazed, but I didn't watch the introductory video on display, I just high-tailed it to the back of the mosaic where there were no other guests to get in my way. I couldn't get the mosaic tiles to slide right out the way other guests were doing ... so I took out my pocket knife and carved one out! Only then did someone notice me and tell me in a panicked whisper that only the front tiles were removable. We spent the rest of the dream frantically trying to sew the tile back into place with the only material we had available -- garish neon pink thread.
I haven't had recurring themes in my nightmares for a while, but when I did, they involved mass shootings (sometimes with me as the shooter, which was even worse), unescapable aerial bombardment, and having to drown someone I loved.
O is for Orders: What's the last thing you bought online? I think it was a preorder of the new book "Blackouts", which comes out Oct. 11. It follows a young man caring for a dying elderly gay man, with excerpts from a real-life 60s-era nonfiction book on homosexuality.
P is for Pop Culture: Do you follow the world of celebrity and know what the hottest new music, movies and trends are? I feel kind of out of the loop on this. I think I'm better at keeping up-to-date with fashion trends than I am with music.
Q is for Quiet: If you're home alone, do you like silence or background noise like music or the TV? Really, I don't mind either -- if music or TV is already on, I enjoy having it as background noise. But I'm not going to go out of my way to turn them on when I'm alone.
R is for Reading: What's your go-to genre? I guess non-fiction, especially with a sociological bent. When it comes to fiction, I dabble with all genres except westerns, lately -- but sci-fi takes the strong lead.
S is for Sweets: What's your favourite dessert or sweet treat? I'd have to say those apple petals I tried at the fall festival. Warm, soft, cinnamon-sugary, delicious!
T is for Travel: Where did you last take a trip? To the Smoky Mountains and South Carolina for hiking, and to visit family! I saw tons of waterfalls and even more amazingly vibrant mushrooms.
U is for Useless: Name something you're just really bad at: Cleaning! OK, growing up, my house was a total pigsty ... I mean, "Call CPS" levels of pigsty. Maybe bootcamp helped me knock the worst elements out of myself. My house gets untidy fast, but I try to do a full-house cleaning session every Sunday, and it never takes TOO long. But it gets VERY bad during the week. I mean, takeout containers and empty pop cans everywhere! Dirty dishes piled on the counter and in the sink, dirty clothes strewn all over the bathroom floor ... it gets awful.
V is for Vision: Do you wear glasses or contact lenses? Glasses, very scratched-up. I've had the same pair for 6-7 years now and the prescription is definitely a bit worn out. But I'm too much of a cheapskate to get new ones. When these ones break, I'll be miserable and blind trying to rush out for a new pair.
W is for Weather: What's your perfect day, weather-wise? Cold enough that I can take a long walk in long sleeves; warm enough that my ears don't freeze off. So probably around 50 degrees Fahrenheit, 10 degrees Celsius.
X is for X-Men: If you could have a superpower, what would it be? Shapeshifting for sure!
Y is for Yesteryear: What period of history is most interesting to you? WWI has been a strong consistent interest ever since high school, it's just shifted from the European front to the Arab Revolt in recent years. It started with a nonfiction book called "To End All Wars" (can't remember the author's name) -- which went into detail about the Scottish socialist movement and the torture/force-feeding of UK suffragettes as well. That stuff hooked me. Then the history of shell shock/the emergence of PTSD hooked me; I still have a mini-library of nonfiction books specifically about shell shock and the treatment thereof in WWI. Then Wilfred Owen and Sigfried Sassoon. Then the Arab Revolt!
Z is for Zero: what popular activity do you have zero interest in doing? Escape rooms. I grew up as "the gifted kid" and I'm mortified of the prospect of going into an escape room and not contributing anything, being too slow on the uptake, etc. It's like the one remaining vestige of Gifted Kid Syndrome I still have.
In lieu of any interesting events, have this meme I stole from
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A is for Argument: Who is the last person you argued with and what was it about? It was probably my friend Dove, about Corbin (the 18 year old) and Kyle (the 26-year-old who was harassing him). I think the disconnect was that Dove strongly believes it's morally okay for an 18-year-old to be in a relationship with someone much older. I guess I believe the same in principle, but in practice, Corbin is still in high school, and Kyle was very clearly grooming him for an abusive relationship, not a healthy one.
B is for Breakfast: Do you eat breakfast? What do you usually have? I never eat breakfast -- I guess you could count the zero-sugar Monster I have every morning XD
C is for Car: Do you have one? What kind? If not, how do you usually travel? It's a little silver Pontiac, about 20 years old, with a huge dent on the hood. The guy I bought it from was kind of a reckless driver. For a $200 car it runs like a song.
D is for Dinner: What's on the menu tonight? I just got a shipment in from YamiBuy so it'll probably salted egg-yolk seaweed rolls and some seasoned rice
E is for Excellence: Name one thing you think you're really good at: I think writing!
F is for Friends: Tell us something you like about the last friend you spoke to: A. David. I adore his conversational skills. We can talk for hours.
G is for Games: What's the last game you played (computer or board game)? Hollow Knight.
H is for Home: Where do you consider to be your "hometown"? Is it where you live now? I grew up in a really rural area, a non-famous Amishville. (Not the touristy kind). I always felt kind of like an outsider in both the towns where I attended school XD The kids there made it clear I wasn't a hometowner, so I never felt like I had one! In any case, no, I don't live there now.
I is for Internet: What websites do you look at every day? Dreamwidth for sure. Google Drive and Gmail. Tumblr and ... discord... does discord count? That's not a website, that's an app. OK, and the only other one is the Kindle online reading page.
J is for Job: What did you want to be when you grew up? Are you doing that now? I secretly, desperately wanted to be a writer, but I felt afraid to tell anyone XD So as a kid I always claimed that I wanted to be something "respectable" to my mom, usually a cop or soldier, or FBI agent. I did end up enlisting, but enlisting in the military as a naive closeted gay kid is a fast way to get radicalized, and now I just work at a nonprofit.
K is for Kitchen: Are you a good cook? What's your go-to dish? No, really not a good cook. When I was married to my ex-wife, my go-to meal was a box of Zatarain's dirty rice with fresh bell peppers and onions chopped up and mixed with it XD That was, no lie, as fancy as it ever got. Mostly I just eat veggies, eggs, ramen, canned soup... and whatever my roommate cooks for me!
L is for Learning: Are you studying or learning anything new right now? Trying to learn Japanese. I have a bad habit of totally forgetting that I'm doing that.
M is for Movies: What's the last one you watched and did you like it? The last I watched was The Nun II and it was just your average Conjuring movie. I liked The Nun (1) a lot better because it spoke to some odd unnameable kink inside of me (hot priest).
N is for Nightmares: Do you have bad dreams? Any recurring themes? Last night I had a nightmare that I was in the Chicago Art Institute. A new mosaic was on display. The tiles were removable, and behind the tiles, enclosed within the mosaic, you could see these amazingly intact Roman sculptures, with the original paint still on them. I was amazed, but I didn't watch the introductory video on display, I just high-tailed it to the back of the mosaic where there were no other guests to get in my way. I couldn't get the mosaic tiles to slide right out the way other guests were doing ... so I took out my pocket knife and carved one out! Only then did someone notice me and tell me in a panicked whisper that only the front tiles were removable. We spent the rest of the dream frantically trying to sew the tile back into place with the only material we had available -- garish neon pink thread.
I haven't had recurring themes in my nightmares for a while, but when I did, they involved mass shootings (sometimes with me as the shooter, which was even worse), unescapable aerial bombardment, and having to drown someone I loved.
O is for Orders: What's the last thing you bought online? I think it was a preorder of the new book "Blackouts", which comes out Oct. 11. It follows a young man caring for a dying elderly gay man, with excerpts from a real-life 60s-era nonfiction book on homosexuality.
P is for Pop Culture: Do you follow the world of celebrity and know what the hottest new music, movies and trends are? I feel kind of out of the loop on this. I think I'm better at keeping up-to-date with fashion trends than I am with music.
Q is for Quiet: If you're home alone, do you like silence or background noise like music or the TV? Really, I don't mind either -- if music or TV is already on, I enjoy having it as background noise. But I'm not going to go out of my way to turn them on when I'm alone.
R is for Reading: What's your go-to genre? I guess non-fiction, especially with a sociological bent. When it comes to fiction, I dabble with all genres except westerns, lately -- but sci-fi takes the strong lead.
S is for Sweets: What's your favourite dessert or sweet treat? I'd have to say those apple petals I tried at the fall festival. Warm, soft, cinnamon-sugary, delicious!
T is for Travel: Where did you last take a trip? To the Smoky Mountains and South Carolina for hiking, and to visit family! I saw tons of waterfalls and even more amazingly vibrant mushrooms.
U is for Useless: Name something you're just really bad at: Cleaning! OK, growing up, my house was a total pigsty ... I mean, "Call CPS" levels of pigsty. Maybe bootcamp helped me knock the worst elements out of myself. My house gets untidy fast, but I try to do a full-house cleaning session every Sunday, and it never takes TOO long. But it gets VERY bad during the week. I mean, takeout containers and empty pop cans everywhere! Dirty dishes piled on the counter and in the sink, dirty clothes strewn all over the bathroom floor ... it gets awful.
V is for Vision: Do you wear glasses or contact lenses? Glasses, very scratched-up. I've had the same pair for 6-7 years now and the prescription is definitely a bit worn out. But I'm too much of a cheapskate to get new ones. When these ones break, I'll be miserable and blind trying to rush out for a new pair.
W is for Weather: What's your perfect day, weather-wise? Cold enough that I can take a long walk in long sleeves; warm enough that my ears don't freeze off. So probably around 50 degrees Fahrenheit, 10 degrees Celsius.
X is for X-Men: If you could have a superpower, what would it be? Shapeshifting for sure!
Y is for Yesteryear: What period of history is most interesting to you? WWI has been a strong consistent interest ever since high school, it's just shifted from the European front to the Arab Revolt in recent years. It started with a nonfiction book called "To End All Wars" (can't remember the author's name) -- which went into detail about the Scottish socialist movement and the torture/force-feeding of UK suffragettes as well. That stuff hooked me. Then the history of shell shock/the emergence of PTSD hooked me; I still have a mini-library of nonfiction books specifically about shell shock and the treatment thereof in WWI. Then Wilfred Owen and Sigfried Sassoon. Then the Arab Revolt!
Z is for Zero: what popular activity do you have zero interest in doing? Escape rooms. I grew up as "the gifted kid" and I'm mortified of the prospect of going into an escape room and not contributing anything, being too slow on the uptake, etc. It's like the one remaining vestige of Gifted Kid Syndrome I still have.